Am a married man aged 33. Problems in our marriage started when a female colleague moved at the same flat we were renting and when coming back from work I could give her free lifts as u know life is a bit expensive in Lusaka and her salary grade is a bit low but my wife became too jealous of her and I suggested that we shift to another place of which we did but surprisingly my wife’s strange behavior continued.
She started being disrespectful at times she couldn’t iron my clothes, at times she denied me sex, She could check my phone regularly and at some point she deleted My Whatsapp but I instead i installed it on my laptop then 1day I overheard her on the phone telling a friend that she controls me like her boy & that annoyed me I didn’t even have time to consult marriage counselors I retaliated by dating the best friend she was telling our marital problems and she so this made my side chick my informant she told me everything they discussed then this nosy neighbor to my side chick who is also my wife’s friend told spilled the beans and told my wife that I was hitting on her best friend and she caught me red handed in the act when I returned back home we fought big time & she vowed not to talk to her friend again and told me to marry her & she left home with my 4yr old boy to her to her aunt’s place.
I tried to call she couldn’t answer my calls and I thought that’s the end but fortunately 2days later she returned back home behaving as if nothing happened & she started behaving the caring wife she started ironing for me, cooked my favorite dish, took my suits for laundry, she could even call me when am at work how much she miss me and things in the bedroom improved big time and during weekend she was all freshed up and looked gorgeous she even stopped wearing those choir chitenge materials regularly
Now am worried whether this love is real or its a trap to make me comfortable and catch me off guard this is stressing me up bcoz I rarely sleep at knight not knowing what would happen when am asleep I have even reached an extent of counting all knives and sharp objects in the kitchen before I go to bed. Members Of The House Pliz Advise Me What Should I Do because am even thinking of taking some days off at work until I know whats going thru her head.