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“I am a 35 years old beautiful lady and married to my 43 years old politician from Shiwang’andu, with 3 children. I have a very sensitive issue and I have tried but I don’t know what to do now.
I dated and married my hubby, and in courtship we agreed not to have s*x, though my man and I had dated other people before that. For sure we lived without s*x.
Now, after wedding, we had our first s*x as married people – my husband defecated during the process. It was embarrassing, I understood, thinking it was phobia and, may be, the food we had during our wedding.
So I washed the beddings myself, to avoid embarrassing ourselves at the lodge. That was during honeymoon. That happened the following day, too.
In the years we have been married, my hubby defecates almost every time we make love. he first shouts in excitement, then defecates when he reaches climax/orgasm. I saw one medical doctor in Ndola and he tried but nothing is changing.
Sometimes when am or he is horny, I even fear to have s*x with him because of this condition.
I tried to ask him about the possible reason, but he just says that that is the reason why the women he dated were leaving him.
People, please help me; I am in a mess! I don’t want to dent my husband’s political image, but I can’t pretend any more. Political influence and money seem to have failed to compensate my predicament.”
RT Royd Moonga